No one’s going to merely save you from your miserable life. Prince charming or Christian Gray is not showing up at your doorstep to radically change your personal life. Life does not work that way. More than likely you aren’t going to win the Mega Millions Jackpot and you aren’t gonna get lucky in life by marrying some prince (still dreaming on that one). Now, these may sound like personal fantasies and wishful thinking but there are allegedly desperate people out there that truly believe that they are gonna have someone whisk them away into the sunset.
Truth 1: You gotta brutally slay your dragon, because Prince Charming isn’t coming.
You shouldn’t focus on the absurd idea that my dull life is gonna get better if a man is with me. Because honey, he isn’t gonna fill that void in your heart like you think he is. First, what is that void in your heart telling you? That feeling in your chest is saying do something with your life! Wake up! You aren’t sleeping beauty or snow white and Prince Charming isn’t gonna revive you from a dream and transport you to his castle. Never gonna happen!! You are a complex organism; with ideas and feelings and not some basic underdeveloped character with no storyline. You are not a princess waiting to have a male figure rescue you from a tower or a wicked queen. You are a woman who needs to learn that you can’t rely on a man to liberate you.
Truth 2: Prince charming isn’t going to merely complete you and he shouldn’t have too!
A partner is about a fifty-fifty relationship, but it is not about a person being superior or inferior to another. Nobody wants to date someone that they feel like they need to rescue and undoubtedly save! If you think a man likes a woman who plays dumb and settles for less, then honey you are dating a flawed man! Stop lowering yourself to this expectation that you think someone desires you to be. You need to learn to cope with yourself and start understanding that you need to improve yourself. A man isn’t gonna fix you but you can fix you! So wake up and realize that because this political world produces us believe that we should be submissive for men to merely like us, that is complete horse shit.
Truth 3: Disney hopelessly ruined us for adulthood!
You don’t look like Cinderella when you are cleaning dishes. You don’t look like snow white when she is sweeping the floor. And you for sure don’t look like Sleeping Beauty when you sleep! No woman has the peculiar features of being bugged eye, having slick silk hair and a spaghetti thin waistline! This depiction of a woman has been so far from reality that its a cartoon! (shocking)! The portrayal of men in Disney films are also unrealistic! Men don’t look like a perfectly carved marble stature, a muscled manic, or a tan god! These portryals of men and women are each unrealstic in their own right. Disney forcably makes us belive that our prince charming has to look like one or all three of those things for him to be worthy of our time. Sorry, but really not sorry! A real man doesnt have those features and the same goes for a woman! Disney has worped our brains into beliveing these lies as facts!
Also, Disney made all these women have something in common, and that is that they needed a hero! I will merely say that Disney has made some changes into their more recent movies like Mulan, Moana, and Frozen but if you were born before 1998, then you presumably recall all the other Disney films that falsely portrayed women as weak and stupid! Bless you, Disney! Or the terrible idea that the first man to focus his attention on us,is the one (Not!)! Disney blatantly lied to us! Disney sets up nearly every lousy movie the same way and that’s that a girl is in danger and she needs a man to save her, and release her from the cruelties of the world. Reality doesn’t work that way! And it shouldn’t have to! Men shouldn’t have the responsibly of saving some woman. That’s not their job! What are we teaching young boys and girls by showing them these movies with women being weak, and man is the savior? What the hell!! Stop! Stop praising young girls on their peculiar looks and start praising them on their personal courage to stand defiantly against this normality.
Truth:4 Be your Knight in Shiny Armor!
Own it! Own your story! Own your failures! Own your personal success! No more shifting blame on to personal circumstance and no more shifting blame on someone not saving you from your dull life! Start choosing yourself and next thing you know you are your personal hero. Showing up for yourself represents the first aggressive step to possessing a different life. You won’t feel like you need someone to save you, because you realize that you can overcome just about anything on your own. You start going to the gym 5 days a week and next thing you know you lost a few inches or you gain some more muscle. You start managing your time better and the next thing you know you’re not a chicken with their head cut off, but a productive individual. Throw on some armor and ruthlessly slay your personal demons! If you merely wait for someone else to enter and liberate you, then you aren’t gonna be much help to yourself.
Dark&Stormi 
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